By the EIE Editorial Staff
Taking your child to horseback riding lessons is an exciting adventure! Here are some tips on how to be a supportive and encouraging parent.
Before the Lesson
- Proper Attire: Ensure your child is wearing appropriate riding attire, including a helmet, riding boots, and long pants.
- Arrive Early: Arrive at least 30 minutes prior to the start of a lesson to ensure the horse is tacked and properly adjusted. Nobody wants to be rushed or stressed before a lesson and the horse will sense it too!
- Equipment Check: Make sure they have all necessary equipment like gloves and a crop if required.
- Positive Reinforcement: Remind your child about how much fun they'll have and how proud you are of them.
During the Lesson
- Observe From a Safe Distance: Stay outside the fence line. Allow the instructor to do their job without interfering but be engaged. This is not the time to be sitting in your car on your cell phone.
- Be Patient: Understand that learning to ride takes time and practice. Avoid rushing or pressuring your child.
- No Drama with Other Parents: If other parents are present, be supportive of each other's children and understand that each child progresses at a different pace. Since each child is riding a different horse, that may impact the progression of learning as well.
- Encourage and Support: Offer positive reinforcement and words of encouragement throughout the lesson.
- Stay Calm: If your child experiences a fall or feels scared, remain calm and reassuring.
- Respect the Instructor: Listen to the instructor's advice and guidance.
After the Lesson
- Ask for Feedback: Talk to the instructor about your child's progress and any areas they need to improve.
- Celebrate Successes: Acknowledge your child's achievements, no matter how small.
- Listen to Your Child: Pay attention to their feelings and experiences during the lesson.
- Encourage Practice: If possible, find opportunities for your child to practice what they've learned.
Additional Tips
- Safety First: Always prioritize safety. Make sure the riding facility has proper safety measures in place and follow their rules.
- Build a Relationship: Get to know the instructor and other parents to create a supportive community.
- Have Fun: Enjoy the experience and create lasting memories with your child.
- Your Child's Happiness: Riding may not be for everyone so it is important to make sure that your child enjoys the experience. Don't pressure your child to continue riding if he or she is fearful or doesn't enjoy it.
- This is About the Child, Not You: Some people use their children's riding to claim some sort or social status in their community. This is tragic and shallow. Don't be one of those people. Period.
By following these tips, you can help create a positive and supportive environment for your child's horseback riding journey.
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